May 28, 2009

First box of joy and tears


We been waiting for this box almost a year..i mean months..nah kidding aside.it was the first box my husband sent to us. My children and i were sooo excited about it..actually whats inside of it..but when it arrived i dont know what is my reaction will be..hayz..apparently my mother dies..mixed emotions..i smilled

May 25, 2009

Making Lust Last..Unfinished..



Sharing lives is different from sharing dinners and long walks and weekends away. When you were dating the man you ultimately married, you were both acting much of the time (consciously or not), putting your best feet forward in order to be attractive to each other. When you were sick or had a bad headache, probably pretended it was no big deal. So did he. Now when your stomach is upset, you feel free to tell him you`re about to throw up. when you had an argument with a close sister, you might have told him, "it really was n`t the best day, but it`s getting better now that we`re together" He might had smiled, taken your hand, and said "Tell me what happened. I want to know" Now when he ask how you days was, you might just say, "Fine", and leave it at that. and he might be happy to leave it at that too. Nobody would write that kind of dialogue into a romantic movies - unless it was a sad serious one. But that`s how married people generally talk because no one can always act adoring or keep up an air of mystery while sharing the same space with his or her spouse, year after year. Here are the truths...

SEX FACT #1 Love is constant; passion needs recharging.

No surprise: Some people fall out of lust in seven days never mind seven years nor 17. Relaxing in our marriages and freeing ourselves from the pressure of trying to impress our partners has a predictable outcome: Our partners are not impressed.The magnetic spell we once cast on them being lift.

SEX FACT#2 Cozy is comfortable, but not sexy.

To extent that men and women become real to each other, they cease to be princes and princesses,gods and goddesses who inspire romantic fantasies or amorous worship. Since couples lucky enough to be emotionally genuine with each other share so many real moments, they need to pay special attention to creating magical ones because great sex requires magic

...have yoUr sex fact here..be the one to finish this..