Satisfaction?

Analyzing Infidelity II


In this doggy dog world of ours we are constantly faced with seemingly endless options in every various aspect of our lives. From the brand of toothpaste that we use to the contraceptive methods that are being want only because they advertised in all different mediums. print. screen. name it "SEX" is everywhere. Sex sells as they say. But that's another topic

Going back. The ratio of men as oppose to women has always been in favor of the "Alpha Male". Men have choices...women don't. Very seldom do you hear women accused of being polygamous in a relationship, it's always been the adult male. It's always the women who are always being associated with martyrdom and stupidity. Hear ye! Hear ye! =)

I remember there's even a mini series in HBO which tackles about polygamous relationships entitled "BIG LOVE". It's a story about a middle age man who is living with his 3 wives and children in one house. The daily plot is based on how he deals with each women and how the women deal with each other. Fighting and compromising for this man's love and attention. Geezer... what women do for love.

Being in a relationship women are always being baffled by that question.." Will I ever be enough for him? ". You tend to be paranoid with even the smallest things. Asking him questions such as " Who you were with? " or " Why is she here? ". Men think of it as insecurity...for women it's an art of survival. A way for us to keep our men. We go through great lengths just to please them. To satisfy not only their physical, emotional and wanton needs just so they could remain faithful to us and their marital obligations.

But will it hinder them from doing the inevitable? It won't . Stopping them will only fan their need to be unfaithful. It's the adventure of it all so to speak. And besides Men are egotistical in nature. For them. the merrier. the better. It often dictates their stature in society. Just to prove a case in point isn't it that every time you hear a guy having 3 girlfriends all in the same time, people would think that this guy is oozing with charisma and is really a great catch. But for women having the same kind of situation will never be treated as such and will only be castigated ,mocked and considered nothing but a whore and a teased. Talking about discrimination. Hey life sucks ladies...

But will you ever be enough? No one knows. No one can tell if you are the PERFECT person for him. Someone who could or would complete him. In the mean time we keep ourselves busy and our pockets drained with vanity that we don't need.

Regardless how many women he has or how scandalous his actions maybe, your only hope is that he still chooses you in the end. That is, if you are still there waiting for him. Ladies it's his lost... not yours!